Thursday, August 22, 2019

Teaching Your Son

Rashi (11:19) says: לדבר בם – משעה שהבן יודע לדבר למדהו, תורה צוה לנו משה וגו׳ (דברים ל״ג:ד׳), שיהא זה לימוד דיבורו. מכאן אמרו: כשהתינוק מתחיל לדבר, אביו מסיח עמו בלשון הקודש ומלמדו תורה, ואם לא עשה כן, הרי הוא כאילו קוברו, שנאמר: ולמדתם אתם את בניכם וגומ׳.
It would appear that this is a din separate from the regular din of chinuch that a father must teach his sons the basic building blocks of Judaism. 

The Tosefta in Chagigah (1:3) says the same thing and its cited in Sukkah (42a,) although the obligation to teach him loshon hakodesh is omitted.  However, the Gemorah cites this obligation amongst other obligations of chinuch indicating that this is also the din of chinuch and that approach is taken by the Ran (Sukkah 28a) and Birkay Yosef siman 37.  Tosfos (Berachos 20a) also understands this way and proves from here that there is a mitzvah of chinuch for kerias shema.  However, Rashi (ibid) holds there is no mitzvah of chinuch for kerias shema for the father isn’t around his son in order to train him to say shema.

How does Rashi deal with the Gemorah in Sukkah?  The Pnei Yehoshua answers that there is no din of chinuch for shema, only for Torah and the possuk of shema is only an example of the words of Torah that one must teach their son.  He proves that is the interpretation of the Rambam as well for he cites this din in the context of teaching one’s son Torah; in Talmud Torah (1:6.)  The Gra (siman 37 and 70) takes this approach in the opinion of Rashi as well.  [It is noteworthy that this interpretation of the Gemorah in Sukkah doesn’t fit well for the Gemorah gives an example of teaching Torah asתורה צוה לנו  and shema is listed is a separate obligation.]  Rav Yitzchak Sorotzkin suggests that the obligation to teach one’s son loshon hakodesh also is merely an extension of the obligation of Talmud Torah.  He basis this off the Rambam in the Laws of Tefillah (12:10-11) that the targum of the Torah is considered תורה שבעל פה.  We see that only loshon hakodesh has the status of Torah Shebksav.  Based upon this, he explains why the Rambam doesn’t mention this obligation to teach one’s son Torah, because it’s included already in the obligation to teach him Torah.  

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